Voice 312: The Great Pretender

We can always hear people saying that : The world is a big stage, that everyone is a director, a narator, as well as an actor. Everyone lives in their own way, directed and narrated by themselves; some might planned well for their whole routine and follow till the end, but some might just planned when the time comes and don't know what will really happened next. Some even don't plan anything, and just do whatever that comes to them. But, there are some particular individual, that we sub-divide them and named them as the Pretender.

It's easy to be a pretender, but how perfectly u can be to be the great pretender? For instance, there are alot of great pretender in certain relationship, or maybe I should say all. Some will pretend that nothing had ever happened even though they have did something that they shouldn't have done. Examples? You know what you shouldn't have done when u r attached to someone...... Even when they have done it, they'll just pretend that nothing happened. Aren't they the great pretender? But I think that the greater pretender is the one who loves them. They knew what happened behind, but just that they don't want to talk about it. Why? Just because that they don't want to involve in any quarrels or arguements. And the main purpose is: they love their other halfs more......

Sometimes you really need to pretend that you don't know a thing, even though you knew something, yet you pretend to be like "hey,what's going on?". some might just take out the issue and speak to their other half, just for an answer; some might just keep to themselves, just because they want to live happily and don't want any arguement with the other half. Don't you think it's kinda suffering to be a pretender? Sometimes you really feel stupid that you sacrifice and did so many things for someone but in the end what you get isn't what you want.

But, can you really pretend that you don't know anything? You knew, but you don't want to voice out, keep quiet till the end. Just because you want to hold another happy moment with the other half? I can, and I will, because I'm the one who pursuit for happiness as well. Even though the moment to be happy is short, but at least I give myself some good memories of the relation.

To all the Great Pretender like me, gambateh!!

Today's lesson: Just pretend that you don't know a thing even though you knew alot.
At least you will be happier that you still hold your other half.